Sex Facts: 5 Sex Secrets I Wish My Man Knew

Posted: February 6, 2012 in GET MORE SEX
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My man has admired, explored, stroked, cupped, and caressed my body since he was first able to get away with it. But I believe he can still learn.

I wish he could teach me to enjoy my body as much as he does.


I wish he grabs my butt during sex or when no one’s looking. It’s my least favorite body part, I wish he tells me he loves it, so I could like it more.

In bed, I wish he could start by kissing his way down me spine while gently caressing my butt with your fingertips. When your lips reach her cheeks, kiss and nibble softly, and firmly knead her buns. Attention is flattering.


I wish he could playing with the arch of my foot,giving me an absolute orgasm.

Foot-play can make a so-so session stellar. The part of the brain that processes sensory input for the feet is right next to the part that processes genital stimulation. For some women, there may be some sort of cross wiring between these two parts of the brain. Even if her nerves aren’t entangled, playing with her piggies is worthwhile: Mouithsone Magazine posted a 2010 Korean study found that couples who exchanged foot massages twice a week fought less and communicated better than less touchy couples.


I like it when me makes me feel weak, even if I’m stronger than him at times.

That coquettish grin might be an act. The dance of playing hard to get can make me seem more timid than I’m. Once I’m aroused, my threshold for pain increases—and I may want you to bite, fling, and spank. My man complain that I’m timid in handling his penis because I did not want to hurt it. Same goes with my body. I wish he could be aggressive in his delivery, but sensitive to my needs. And try the take-control move I secretly craves: 46 percent said pinning me down on the bed is the aggressive move most likely to flick my switch. Take those odds.


During penetration, his penis inflates my vaginal wall, and his thrusting stretches out the internal legs of my clitoris (from about 10 millimeters in length to 20 millimeters). This exerts pressure against my vaginal wall and may stimulate my G-spot. The best (and hottest!) positions for exciting my G-spot: me on top, or entry from behind.


I like to look at his penis when we make love.

Notice I did not say “your huge penis.” Women rate extremely long penises as less attractive than those of a more average length, according to a 2010 study in the Archives of Sexual Behavior I found at Mouithsone Magazine. Seeing men in action is what excites women. Penises are sexy to women, who are visual creatures, too. In fact, both sexes are turned on more by sight than by other senses. Toss the covers aside or place a mirror beside the bed to give her a better view.

  1. Bennie says:

    You have a penis most men would want, but I agree that looking at a penis on anethor man is natural; why do you think that a lot of men dress in locker rooms today by putting a towel over their mid-body to take off or put on their pants/underwear/gym shorts? But, these same guys are checking me out when I am drying myself off with a towel, sitting legs open in the steam room/sauna, or putting lotion on my ass and cock before I put on my pants/underwear after a ahower at the gym. And, today, I was checked out by a guy with a large cock (I saw his when he started to stroke his cock in the sauna and then stood up to leave wrapping the towel around his waist since anethor guy joined us in the sauna, who appeared to not want to join the party!). Mr. Nice Cock (7 + uncut not aroused) quickly looked down at my nude body and 5 + partially cut cock (not aroused) as I was going into the shower area and we crossed paths [he leaving and I arriving]. So, all men regardless of their cock’s size (girth & length & cut/uncut/partially cut) and sexual orientation glance or let you glance with pride and curiousity or both. If we ever get over the cock size thing (which is promoted by advertising & porn movies), we will learn that what our cock gives to us and others in the form of pleasure and experiences is a true body part that really only looks odd when the cock size does not fit the body [height/weight/proportunate (HWP)]. Thanks for clarifying what really matters about cocks and their purposes and uses.

  2. tThe Hook says:

    I actually feel good that I knew all of these!

    • Rahayu says:

      I’ve worked with many men with fileengs of inadequacy around penis size. For the vast majority of these men, the issue wasn’t their actual penis size, rather it was their fileengs about it. Our relationship with our bodies is a fascinating area. Many men look at their penis as a physical representation of their masculinity with good reason.In my own experience I’ve never really thought much one way or the other about my penis size. I guess that I’ve wished my soft size was bigger I think that’s a pretty common thought for men. Of course, the reality behind that feeling is strictly about somehow making myself better than the other guy I’m comparing myself to. It really has no other reason for being!There’s a huge business that feels off of our fileengs of inadequacy. I have a long list of things I’d like to change about my body. The reality is that I can’t change most of those things I don’t like. To me the important thing is to learn to accept and be happy with what we can’t change and work on changing the things we can!

      • Rana says:

        Size matters, but girls don’t want to hurt the feeilngs of guys with small wieners. I tell my husband it matters, but he’s huge, so it really doesn’t bother him. I would suggest not injecting olives into your penis. Maybe not injecting anything into it. Learn to use big dildos on your girlfriends so they can have the feeling of a large unit occasionally.

  3. All good stuff… My question is, if someone wants there partner to do these things, they should simply ask! I don’t know one man that would say, “Honey, I don’t want to touch your ass” or “No, dear, I am NOT going to pound your pussy.” Ask, girls, and they will do it! I promise.

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