Sexual Freedom: It really doesn’t cost you anything monetarily to have sex

Posted: January 28, 2012 in Uncategorized
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Freedom isn’t really free, but sexual freedom is. As it really doesn’t cost you anything monetarily to have sex. Yeah there’s dating costs or the cost of a prostitute but I’m talking past the initial. People that “love” each other can copulate any time they please. Now let me tell you how this is a LIE!

Call this some pent up sexual frustration, but sexual relationships are really not free and not everyone that “loves” each other has sex. If that were the case there really would be less teen pregnancies. Sounds pretty pessimistic eh. Let me lay out a scenario to you that is very familiar to most guys:

  • Guy gets with girl they date for a while and decide to get engaged.
  • To save on money they move in together and start having a lot of sex.
  • Girl states since they are engaged that sex is on tap anytime the guy wants.
  • Few months past guy has this in mind and decides to hit the tap
  • Girl states “I have my period” or “not tonight honey I have a headache”
  • Guy is left with his hand who neither turns him down or argues.

Some women find this offensive. Ladies I don’t mean to offend you but some details of life seem to be promised and others you edit as time passes.This is basic humanity.

Now if you look at this scenario from a medical and psychological profile I’ve got some facts for you. The period argument tends to be your only line of defense if you don’t feel sexual during that time. Why you may ask? Science has proven the release of chemicals and the oxidation given to the brain during orgasm are actually the best cure for a headache.

The male/female relationship as well applies to government and political standpoints as most women will say behind every great man is a great woman. If you notice though the sexual aspect doesn’t come into play until it’s scandalous. IE making the man or woman fallible. To break all this down folks is that both sides are fallible but the sex we enjoy is freedom from the world. So ladies and gents in the words of Nine Inch Nails – Get down make love…

sexthisYEAR

Comments
  1. LJ says:

    This is an interesting post. “Freedom isn’t free.” True. Sexual freedom isn’t free either for all the reasons that you stated. When we’re talking about sex though, money generally isn’t the currency we’re spending as you explained. Even if it is a one nighter, it still isn’t free. How many unwanted STDs and pregnancies have resulted from the recreational hook-up? How many guys and gals have fretted over the broken condom, wondering when the period would come–if it would come? Or had to wait for the those “tests” to come back…? The currency we spend where sexual intimacy is involved centers around that of our bodies, our health, our mental and emotional health, and our identities. Sex is sex. It’s one of the most powerfully creative acts and, conversely, destructive acts known to humanity. The advertising agencies the world over have known that since they’ve had a bottle of Coca-Cola to sell…and the masses the world over have been buying ever since.

    • Valid point.

      Thanks for providing such great insight.

      By the way, the Guest I talked about last week, was to provide monthly articles, one or two, for both our magazine, and it issues. If you could provide me with your email, I would love to send you more details on that matter.

      • Thank you Sweetheart, I will email you later today or tomorrow.

      • Hello again,

        I hope you had a wonderful weekend. Our editor-in-chief sent you an email today related to contribution to our magazine as discussed with you, Did you get it?

        Kind regards,

        Jeremie

      • LJ says:

        I did. I just replied. Thank you for contacting me. I did, in fact, have a wonderful weekend. I hope you did, too.

      • Cleusa says:

        I was like you many years ago. After the computer age, my sex life tltolay changed!We must thank those who invented computers & IT ,otherwise we arent able towatch all the prons on our websites. So nothing is better than to watch more adultsmovies to improve your sexual habits. Dont take any any oral pills,coz that can kill you& they arevery expensive!! Watching prons are safe & it’s FREE!!!!

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  3. Lily says:

    If you’re a guy, and a woman doesn’t have sex with you, the reason is pretty simple:

    She doesn’t want to.

    Trying to argue that her reasons for not wanting to aren’t valid — “You have a headache? Well, that’s not a good reason, because giving me what I want will cure your headache” isn’t going to make any woman want to have sex with you, nor will it make the resulting sex any better or more enjoyable for her.

    It will, however, let her know that you’re willing to try to argue or guilt her into sex she doesn’t want to have.

    If you want to have more sex, make sure the sex you’re having is the kind of sex your partner really wants. Anything else is just manipulation.

  4. Lily says:

    Do you feel that a woman who is in a relationship with you “owes” you sex?

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