Porn: Is it for the perverted or an absolute answer to frustration issues?

Posted: January 28, 2012 in Uncategorized
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When I was first introduced to porn it was accidentally, I found a flyer lying on the street with a phone number and a picture of a naked woman playing with herself. Being fourteen years old I felt some odd attraction and desire for this image. I’ll admit I pleasured myself to the image alone several times. In contrast though I was not out trying to get laid like the majority of my friends and I had some twisted respect for women as an image stirred up so much desire in me.

When I first had sex which was years later I found a desire for that feeling at an uncontrollable rate. I seeked out sex and found that the more taboo and disturbed it was the better the feeling. I seeked out strange porn from midget sex to “Pussy Scans”. I found the more obscure and unusual the sex act in front of me the more my desire for self pleasure rose. The irony of this though is sexually I wanted nothing more than what some would refer to as basic sex.

Now as I think back upon those days and even some of my own fetish and fantasies now I don’t find myself to be the depraved pervert that that social media has labeled others whom were caught looking into similar things. Psychologically speaking men have a desire to expel the lust from their body which is natural, but is it how its manifested that makes us perverts?

This is where a lot of my thoughts lay. I’ll be honest I still look for strange and unusual porn to build up desire. Is this really wrong? I know a few women whom do similar things. To be honest the world is a whole lot more perverse and depraved that one would think. My rant ends here for now, but this is more food for thought than an argument. So please be smart about what I state here and honestly try not to take mob mentality but your own opinion. Thank you

– sexthis YEAR

Comments
  1. Massoume says:

    My personal award for Magazine that has NO Reason to Exist goes to Cosmo. Standing in line at Walmart ccnekihg out groceries I cannot begin to count the number of times I have seen Cosmo headlines basically amounting to this:1) 20 Ways to Get a Man in Bed 2) Moves to Make in Bed to Get Your Lover Off 3) How to Attract Men and the real answer to the above is 1) Ask him.2) Get naked and do what you’re told.3) Be a woman.

  2. clyde1120 says:

    Great post.

    Here’s to a time when the word pornography is just another word amongst many with no stigma attached.

    This is why we need excellent sexual education whilst at school taught by passionate teachers whom have been trained to the highest level just as any other teacher is trained.

    I would argue if done right we could possibly see a further reduction in sexual assaults etc from the already reduced amount that porn has helped achieve.
    And what a magnificent way to communicate to young brains the standard for being an excellent citizen?

    This is a growth area for humanity. All we need now is some politicians who want to take a risk and fight the good fight.

    Clyde

  3. I think it’s normal (as far as normal goes) to seek things in porn that you are not really into in real life. It’s kind of like fantasies… I don’t want all my fantasies to come true… Some of them I just want to keep in my mind. Same with porn. I know that I like to watch porn that goes well beyond what I would be comfortable with in reality.
    And midget porn… I’ve watched my fair share… Never got turned on by it. Disturbed. But not aroused. Or at least not that I’m willing to admit! 🙂

    • Sonia says:

      maureen you won’t believe but i must digesrae with you porn like violence in film on its own will not taint a normal persons perspective on reality . but on the other hand once one unbalanced person is accused of mimicking something that they may seen on the screen . all hell breaks loose and every news anchor and talk show host is screening for restrictions restrictions restrictions. that is till the government announces a new security plan then the same people cry freedom . freedom . freedom.so i sometimes wonder what are we affected/ influenced more by . the porn, or the many that discuss/debate the evils of porn. also of importance many of those self proclaimed experts have proudly admitted they never watched porn.in my opinion the only thing porn will do to a normal healthy mind . at the most intrigue them to try something they would have never thought of on their own.but as today we need excuses for our unacceptable behavior i guess watching too much porn can be used to explain some peoples crass behavior !!!

  4. I totally concur with your assessment Mike. Perversion is absolutely an expression of selfishness while sharing our interests and likes should always be nothing but a mutual way of connecting with other around the world, and no one gets hurt.

    Well done.

    Cheers,

    Jeremie

    • Lauren says:

      I love to be intimate with my panetrr but, lets get real most of us women know what we want and how we like it. I have been known to wear heels to bed but, only cause I know I am getting sex as soon as I am in that bed. Not all women love the taste of semen and not every woman in the world will do anything to pass a class or avoid a ticket. I guess you will know what suits that person as long as you get to know em first so you won’t be like oh i never knew you were dominate in bed or liked whips and chains to each their own.

  5. Mike F says:

    Like with everything, it’s all good until someone takes it too far and does something stupid. I been looking at porn since I was 11. I’m not depraved nor a pervert, to me perversion is selfish and I prefer to share my interests and like to have others share interests with me, and no one gets hurt. I wouldn’t call it an absolute answer to frustration, just something that is used to relieve the pressure. I draw a parallel between porn and food. Porn is that snack 2 hours after lunch. It’s not dinner, but it does suffice until dinner is ready.

    • Ananya says:

      The video also forget to mtenion that all men are able to maintain their erections for hours on end while pleasing their women multiple times first before finally giving in to the need to explode. Yeah only in the movies.As for the original question about being on camera, for myself it’s an issue of comfort&trust. The longer I’ve known someone, the more comfortable I am around them, the more I trust them, and the more willing I am to let my guard down and be open to trying just about anything. Generally speaking though I definitely lean more towards the voyour side rather than exhibitionist.

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